We are having a lull. Both boys are simmering along nicely, the first week back at school was hard, the melt downs the aggression, the axiety and behaviours from both. But since the 2nd Tuesday in, everything seemed to click into place and has been going well.
Thats not to say life is easy, when special needs parents say things are calm at the moment, we dont mean silent kids, sofa snuggled and cupcakes. We mean, no one has lost their shit, broken anything, hurt anyone, made mamma cry. They mean, they are exhausted at the end of the day, the micromamagement needed to achieve our calm is exhausting, but we are not at crisis point at the moment. We are not putting out fires, we are preventing them. But we are poised ready to do battle should those sparks make flames. Ever ready, ever waiting, for the storm to arrive…….